The new cat face crop top ($22) settles comfortable into its new home :)

Planetarium (excerpt) - Adrienne Rich

I have been standing all my life in the

direct path of a battery of signals

the most accurately transmitted most

untranslatable language in the universe

I am a galactic cloud so deep so invo-

luted that a light wave could take 15

years to travel through me         And has

taken           I am an instrument in the shape

of a woman trying to translate pulsations

into images              for the relief of the body

and the reconstruction of the mind.

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Gah! Loving this crystal and gold jewelry by Robyn Rhodes just in; $82-$120

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Add a little color and inspiration to your walls with these hanging art panels by Papaya, $22/each 

We’re coming up on wedding season and graduation season!

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Street harassment is always a DON’T #feminism #style #grrrlpower #riseup #wiseup 🙌

Thank you Christine Quinn

Kudos to Christine Quinn, the NYC mayoral candidate who revealed earlier this week her past struggle with bulimia. Eating disorders have the highest rate of mortality of any mental illness and yet continue to be shrouded in shame and misunderstanding. Bulimia is especially stigmatized as the less “socially-accepted” of the two most recognized eating disorders, so any person who admits to having struggled with this particular disorder deserves special praise and support. 

Despite the courage exhibited by Quinn and other women in the public eye (like Demi Lovato, Katie Couric, etc.) who have admitted to past struggles with bulimia, it still seems necessary to establish a certain distance from the disorder before admitting to it. It’s nearly unheard of for a famous person to state that she still, currently, actively struggles with bulimia; there seems to be some safety in saying “that was then, this is now” or “I have a shameful secret from a long time ago, but I’m better today”. 

So while Quinn’s admittance is brave and powerful (especially in the male-dominated field of politics), society is still a long way from accepting and understanding eating disorders, evidenced by the constant need to downplay them and create distance from them. Bravo to people in the public eye who open up about any experience at all with disordered eating; anything that helps facilitate a conversation about the issue is valuable. However, it seems our culture is still a long way off from supporting and applauding someone who says “I am living with an eating disorder”. 

Let’s start today! Here are some great and accessible resources for fostering ED understanding, support, and destigmatization:

http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org

http://www.normal-life.org

http://theprojectheal.org

http://onegirlarmystrong.wordpress.com

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